Dear readers, yours truly just watch the video "Strangers Again"on Youtube and it hit upon me that every single relationship goes through it, there is no escape. But when the thing hits rock bottom, don't play the blame game- no one is right and wrong in the matter of love. Why not work it out instead? Remember how was it like when the two would die without each other?
Well I came across this while surfing and I cried while reading it. It speaks many things out kept hidden and it works as a guideline for both male & female!
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Love the girl in your heart. If you base your relationship on feelings, it will fail for there are ups & downs in feelings.
Love her for who she is. Don't even think about
changing any bit about her. 6 billion people in this
world & 6 billion different personalities. She's
special & she will stay that way. That's why you fell in love with her at the first place.You change any part of her, you'll change her forever. Don't substitute her for anyone else, they are just unique in their own ways.
Love whole-heartedly. She sacrificed a lot for you
so you'd better really treasure her. She could
have just got up & date a so much more dashing
guy in town but she chose you instead all because
of love. So love her, don't break her heart.
Don't just get the girl to beg you to stay or
whatsoever. If you're with her, love her. Don't ever because of
a strain in the relationship , you'll end up loving
each other out of pity or charity, even worse throw it away. That's not
respecting love at all. Respect love the way it is &
everything will be the best it can be.
Remember- She's the only
one in the world & she's all yours now. Shouldn't you be happy and pause to think how to give a little more for her?
Like another girl while you're in a relationship? Or still harbour feelings for your ex?
Then I think it's time you step up your game, is the girl in your arms now merely a replacement? For she has done nothing wrong but to love you whole heartedly, thinking that you love her too. And the day she finds out the truth, you just broke her heart. Don't go around breaking her heart, it's the most tragic thing to do.
Tell the truth, never hide anything from her. If you
want her to tell you everything, do the same.
When you've got the girl of your dreams . Get it
over when she's already yours, don't ask for more.
It never kills to be romantic. Think, be flexible.
Getting that diamond ring isn't the only gift for her.
Be realistic, she's human & she lives life just like
you. Something sweet & simple always get the job
done. Money doesn't exist between couples, it's
the love.
Never promise her that you'll love her forever
because your forever might end the next day. Love
her as if each day is the last.
Promise her & make sure you never break it.
Swear to her & make sure you keep it. Pledge
your love to her & her alone.
Loving her is giving her your heart to break it but
trusting her not to. Instead, she'll cherish it &
protect it. That's love. Give her your heart, your
life, your everything.
Lay down your life & prepare to die for her when
the need arises. But stay strong & live through
another day, she can never live without you.
Never, ever walk out of her life. She won't just cry
her heart out & carry on living as per normal, she'd
die. It's her heart that you've broken, how would you
ever know how she feels?
Winning a girl's heart isn't the final victory. Don't
leave her once you've won her love. Love her all the
way till the end of time, love her till marriage, love
her till old age, love her till death. If you can love
her till the end of time, you've earned the honor &
respect for you've truly loved her.
She chose you because she believes that you can
fulfill your promise. Win her heart & love her over.
Remember, the girl isn't a trophy for display,
Stay humble yet proud that she's the one for you.
Respect her for the way she is, never despise her
& never mistreat her.
